rant with no good arguments? idk

I am capable of the RANT so here comes the RANT.

Well maybe not a huge rant and leflskfhjjet you know what just go with it?
I saw this on tumblr: you are not depressed if you have a bad day. just a day. depression is so much more than that…so please don’t go telling me that you’re depressed because you went out today and realized your shoes don’t match your shirt ok 

And I don't know but it makes me angry. Why do people need to make other people feeling bad about them 'feeling bad'. Just because they aren't depressed doesn't mean they can't feel like shit and what gives you the right to treat their feelings like nothing just because they aren't depressed.

fyi. I haven't heard anyone say they were depressed because they mismatched their clothes.

And let's take the scenario like this. What if a person is depressed, that doesn't have mean they go around and talk about it. Maybe they choose to keep it to themselves, not wanting to talk about it or the feelings around it and still 'acting like normal'. Maybe the mismatched clothes was a real set-back for that particular day?

Sure there will always be people who doesn't understand the meaning of depression and use it inappropriately and when it's definitely not necessary. To be honest I get ticked off by that too (especially if they are people that I don't like) but it's better to explain it to them in a relatively good tone right?

But maybe someone is having a really shitty day or week and they say they feel depressed. Don't go minimize their feelings just because they aren't...perhaps this is what they think it feels like?

Ugh yeah sorry about this but it makes me angry sometimes when people play that card, 'I feel so much worse than you' (because there is literally no way you can tell because feelings are different for everybody) but it's more when you put it online that it makes me djhg,gh,tu

idk this probably doesn't make any sense. I'll write something better to explain it later but apparently we're eating now.